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To Walk on Eggshells
Not long ago, we have mentioned
the wonderful and inspiring book that Suzy Johnston has written about her
journey of self-recovery and hope.
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At the age of 17, Suzy developed the initial
symptoms of depression with the condition developing into manic
depression/bipolar affective disorder whilst studying at St Andrews
University in Scotland.
After graduating, her deteriorating health saw her being hospitalized on 6
occasions with acute episodes of severe depression. Following her
recovery, she first became involved in mental health awareness programs in
1999 when she joined the Education Team of the Renfrewshire Association
for Mental Health. Giving talks to senior secondary pupils, social workers
etc and writing about having mental illness for student psychiatric nurses
led to the writing of her autobiography ‘The
Naked Bird Watcher’ which was first published in the Spring of 2003.
She
is involved with the Scottish Executive’s ‘seeme’ Campaign that addresses
stigma and discrimination whilst raising awareness. Having written various
articles and features, she researched and initially drafted the '1 in 4'
Scottish Association for Mental Health Booklet for young people.
It
was following this that both the Scottish Executive’s Mental Health
Division and some of the mental health organizations that she had been
involved in suggested that she became an adviser on mental health, and so
in June 2004 she set up
The Cairn to publish, promote, write and advise on
mental illness and its issues.
For Suzy,
The Cairn (the Scottish term for a mound of stones set as a
landmark) symbolizes the recovery from mental illness; the foundation
stones being the support mechanisms holding the mental health in place –
the support mechanisms being the network that is made up of either family,
friends, colleagues or professionals.
She
writes on mental illness/mental health and their issues – either in an
educational and awareness role, or as a topic for everyday discussion and
debate, and in informative formats such as booklets and leaflets, as well
as articles for magazines - including the 'This Life' column of Mental
Health Today - journals and newspapers both in the UK and the USA. She
believes in the importance of good self- management for maintaining good
mental health when recovering from a mental illness or a psychiatric
disorder.
It
is her belief that being involved in mental illness/mental health should
be seen as an ongoing learning process and believes that mental illness
should be accepted, understood and respected by all. |
Now, Suzy's mother, Jean has written a companion volume so that
you can hear the story from the parent's perspective. Below are some
short reviews of Jean's book,
To Walk on Eggshells:
This is a priceless account of the agony, shock, love and stamina of
a mother faced with a child who has been dealt the unkind hand of severe
mental illness. Easy to read, clearly sincere and uncontrived it is
altogether memorable. Her feelings are described with endearing honesty
and simplicity, over the space of several years and through the various
stages of her daughter's illness and recovery. Her early feelings of
utter uselessness are so real and understandable, the only solace coming
from basic mothering activities such as ironing her daughter's pyjamas
on the eve of being admitted to a psychiatric unit. One of the many
remarkable features of this account is Jean's appreciation of the
irreplaceable role of in-patient care, when sanctuary is needed, and the
oft repeated affection for specialist staff. She bucks the fashionable
trend of demanding a right to be involved in the detail of her
daughter's hospital care, recognising the dangers of over involvement
and seeing her daughter's relationship with her teams as her own
business. Her relationship with the ward cleaner is a great comfort and
is a useful reminder of the totality of a service which is discounted by
planners and managers. Altogether this is a refreshingly sensible and
emotionally riveting account from an intelligent lady who is blessed
with the unusual combination of modesty, insight and the energetic
desire to do something to ease the plight of those afflicted with mental
illness.
Professor AVP Mackay, OBE, MA, BSc (Pharm),
PhD, MB, ChB, FRCP (Ed), FRCPsych, Tpsych, Director of Mental Health
Services, Lomond and Argyll (retired)
Jean Johnston’s words provide comfort and guidance
to all other care givers out there. As a father and care giver myself,
I found the comfort of learning of the positive change which can come
over time in our loved ones. Her simple words of wisdom in dealing with
mental illness and the many situations we, as care givers and parents,
might find ourselves in, will be an indispensable ally. Jean writes of
the uniqueness of every patient and case, of the complexities of
treatment and medications, and of the fundamental keys to recovery:
self awareness of the symptoms, development of coping strategies and
the carer’s sensitivity and communication skills to help even while they
may feel they are walking on egg shells.
Doug Huskey, father and care giver.
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Last Updated on
04/24/05
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